Tom's story
Hope House uh when I first came across
the threshold and what it means to me
was it was love right off the bat. My my
childhood was kind of chaotic. I come
from a single dad, alcoholism. Um little
chaotic. And then I just was screaming
for help and looking for some direction
in my life. I was young. I was 15 years
old and just came across the threshold
of Hope House and it just it just opened
its arms and just welcomed me in and it
just showed me love from day one.
Myself, I was kind of a troubled kid,
right? My mom had got into a car
accident and my dad was uh God rest his
soul, he was an alcoholic and he was
trying to struggle with that. So there
was a lot of violence in the picture.
So, I remember one day my dad was going
at it pretty good and I I was thinking
to myself, how can I really get out of
this situation right now? And I said,
"Hey, I I need to I need some some help.
I need to talk to a priest. I need to
talk to the church. I need something to
kind of alleviate the pain and chaos."
And I had known about Hope House and I'd
heard about it and I asked my dad to
take me here to talk to someone. And
then that's where I got a chance to meet
Father Frank and the Hope House
Ministries and the staff. And that kind
of started the journey for me to get
away from the chaos and to bring me into
some hope literally some hope. Going to
school on the regular regular meals,
simple little things that I wasn't
really getting at home.
Father Frank, he's like, "Hey, do you
guys want to go skiing and would you be
interested in that?" just to take me to
another environment and being able to
experience that sport and, you know,
like fun, you know, genuine fun and that
was that was amazing. And just the the
brotherhood, the companionship with my
buddy Eric, having a brother that I
could experience these new things with
was pretty cool, man. So, for me, what
was different about Hope House and the
other directions that I took in my life
was the unconditional love. It was the
people that were plugged in that didn't
they they they didn't give up on me when
I made bonehead moves and I'd stay out
or be around the wrong crowd or they
they were just always there to to dust
me off and kind of put me back on my
feet and say we're going to we're going
to go at this again and I probably broke
a record for being the on the grounding
list more than anybody in the whole
institution but you know it was just it
was just love and and just kind of pat
on the back and saying you know, you're
going to push through. You're going to
get through. And the people that are
plugged in, the staff that I'm that I
knew, you know, helping me with my
schoolwork, being there after school
when I came home to, you know, or
helping me build a model. There was just
so many different people that are
plugged in to the ministries. To go to
therapist sessions and being able to
unload all the things that I've been
through in my life and and kind of get
some direction is just so different than
any other program or or recovery path
that I've been in. And I just want to
add that I've been through a lot of
them. I'm I'm 16 17. My wife reminds me
17 years sober now. And I think that
Hope House Ministries was an
instrumental part of that, man.